Favorites and Must Haves

Books I’ve Read and Recommend

The Gifts of Imperfection -

Brené Brown

Come as You Are-

Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Addict America The Lost Connection -

Dr. Carol Clark

Intimacy Must Haves

Just Good Stuff

Wabi Sabi: Japanese Wisdom for a Perfectly Imperfect Life by Beth Kempton

Men, Women, and Worthiness: The Experience of Shame and the Power of Being Enough (only available in audio format) - Brené Brown

The Butters is a small-batch queer and black owned company that specializes in lubes and other personal care products. This is he best oil for aches and pains I’ve ever used! And this and all The Butters products are VEGAN.

Relax deeper with this silky, CBD-infused massage and body oil. Made with Organic Hemp Derived CBD and rich botanical oils, it hydrates skin, eases soreness, and melts stress—fast-absorbing, never greasy.

How to do the Work -

Dr. Nicole LePera

Coming Together -

Danielle Harel, PhD and Celeste Hirschman MA

I Thought it was Just Me but it Isn’t -

Brené Brown

Tush Cush anal lube is a thick water and silicone based jelly that provides the cushion you want for lots of back door play. Plays well with adult toys and condoms. Brought to you by Hello Cake

Überlube is the superior lube and #1 lube recommended by sex therapists and coaches. Silicone slip, consistency, glide, and staying power 10/10