I invite you to come home to your body, come home to you.

Whether you’re seeking intimacy, deeper connection, or healing, somatic coaching helps you feel more alive and more at ease.

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Welcome to Somatic Coaching in Kansas City

At the heart of my work is somatic coaching — a body-based, experiential approach that helps you move out of your head and into your lived experience. Somatics is about listening to your body’s signals, emotions, and sensations to create real, lasting change.

Whether you’re here to explore intimacy, strengthen your relationship, or work with the impact of trauma, somatic coaching offers the same foundation: safety, presence, and practical tools you can use every day.

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    Somatic Trauma Coaching

    Practice and condition your nervous system. Somatic trauma coaching gently restores balance and resilience from the inside out. Learn skills that assist in integration and embodiment

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    Relationship Coaching

    Strengthen your bond, improve communication, and bring back joy. Somatic relationship coaching helps you connect with empathy, ease, and authenticity.

  • Somatic sex therapy

    Sex and Intimacy Coaching

    Explore desire and pleasure with safety and curiosity. Somatic sex coaching helps you feel more confident, present, and playful in your erotic self and more connected to your body

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Let’s Meet Over Coffee (or tea)

There’s something different about sitting across from someone and being genuinely listened to. “Coffee with Heidi Oh” is a $35 consultation where you can bring what’s real and experience what it’s like to be met with clarity, curiosity, and emotional presence.

If you’re longing for a space where your story lands and your questions are taken seriously, this hour offers a genuine sense of whether working together is the right next step—and sometimes even that first conversation creates movement you didn’t expect.

If you want to skip the consultation and are ready to schedule an appointment with me or have general questions - text me 725-222-6771 or email Heidi@heidioh.com

What does “somatic” mean?

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Somatics is the thread connecting all of my work. By listening to your body’s wisdom, we can create lasting change — whether you’re rebuilding intimacy, strengthening your relationships, or moving through the effects of trauma.

Somatic work is often the missing link that talk therapy never quite reaches. You can intellectually understand your patterns, your childhood, or why you react the way you do—and still feel triggered, disconnected, or overwhelmed. That’s because the body holds experiences long after the mind has processed them. Somatic work helps your nervous system finally catch up.

Instead of only talking about what happened, we bring the body into the healing—breath, sensation, posture, movement—so your system can release stress instead of recycling it. Research shows that somatic approaches can help reduce anxiety, interrupt emotional shutdown, and improve emotional regulation in ways talking alone can’t.

In session, we slow down enough for your body to feel safe again. When safety returns, connection returns—within yourself, and in your relationships. And that’s where real change sticks.

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  • Ease anxiety

  • ADHD/ AuDHD symptoms

  • Grief/Sadness/Depression

  • PTSD

  • Shock Trauma

  • C-PTSD

  • Childhood Trauma

  • Be a more present parent

  • Show more patience and compassion

  • Creating and upholding boundaries

  • Living with or loving someone with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)

  • Relieve guilt and shame

  • Living an authentic life

  • Death of a parent/Child/partner

  • Nightmares/Flashbacks

Some of the reasons people come see me

People see me for many reasons, below are some of the most common:

  • Trusting love

  • Getting over a break up

  • Leaving a relationship/ Unpartnering

  • Figure out what you want in a partner

  • Asking for what you need

  • Chronic pain relief

  • No creeps dating advice

  • Reviving a relationship

  • Clear and concise communication

  • Confidence/Self-esteem

  • Flirting

  • “Coming out”/ LGBTQIA+

  • Shadow/Inner child work

  • Starting a new career

  • Feeling stuck

  • Help with making decisions

Questions I often get asked:

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1.What does my nervous system have to do with healing?

Your nervous system shapes how you respond to stress, trauma, and even joy. When we retrain it to regulate, everything begins to shift. 👉 Continue reading

2. Can this work help with trauma, PTSD, or chronic stress?

Yes. We work gently with the body, not just the story, so your nervous system can learn new ways to feel safe.👉 Continue reading

3. What happens during a nervous system regulation session?

We slow things down, track sensations, and practice real-time regulation so your system learns how to come home to itself. 👉 Continue reading

4. Do I have to talk about my trauma for this to work?

No. You don’t have to relive painful experiences to heal. We focus on what your body is telling us in the present moment. 👉 Continue reading

5. Can we talk about intimacy and sex if I want to?

Yes — if it’s something you want to explore. I’m also trained and certified to work with intimacy, desire, and sexual healing in a safe, embodied, and nonjudgmental way 👉 Learn more about sex & intimacy coaching

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